Carol Garramone

A message from members of Carol’s care team:

During her hospital stay in February, Carol Garramone was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer. She chose to begin palliative care at home on February 28th. She gathered a small support tribe, a 24/7 caregiving team, and a death doula to care for her. Her nephew Michael, whom she adored, was able to spend time with her and say goodbye.

We understand this news may feel sudden, and this may be the first time you’re hearing it. We’re sorry if we weren’t able to share updates more frequently or sooner. Throughout this journey, we followed Carol’s wishes, especially early on as she navigated the delicate balance between welcoming visitors and facing how quickly the cancer was progressing. At the center of every decision was our deep love for her and our commitment to honoring and respecting what she wanted.

Carol Ann Garramone, a retired New York City public school teacher and guidance counselor, worked with the most underserved youth in the city. She moved to Ojai 32 years ago following an early retirement, seeking a more peaceful life as the public school system underwent changes that didn’t align with her goals and passion for the most vulnerable population. She built a beautiful new chapter—creating not just a home, but a vibrant community through her deep involvement in local theater throughout the county.

Carol found great joy on the stage as an actress, bringing together talented individuals and forming lasting connections. In later years, she was a devoted audience member—almost always seated in the front row—cheering on performers with enthusiasm and pride. Her passion for the craft never waned; she continued studying acting into her 80s.

While Carol was a bright stage light, she shone brighter as a champion of young artists in the Ojai community. She was a constant presence at youth performances, rarely missing an opportunity to support aspiring actors, whether in film or theater. She took particular delight in watching young performers grow and evolve over time. She was an especially devoted supporter of the Nordhoff High School drama program and its director, John Hoj.

Carol’s effervescent joy for life and her genuine connection with others touched every space she entered. Her enthusiasm, generosity, and unwavering support left a lasting impact on those around her.

The outpouring of care and concern for Carol was incredible. She deeply felt how loved she was.

Over the past week, her bright, effervescent spirit began to outgrow her physical body. She passed peacefully on March 23rd at 6:49 pm, guided by her death doula. In her final days, your messages, memories, and blessings were read aloud to her, and the flowers left at her door were used in her shrouding ceremony alongside her beloved roses.

A celebration of life will be held later in the summer in Ojai. In lieu of flowers, Carol wished for contributions to a Memorial Theater Arts Scholarship established in her name. Her greatest hope was to be remembered for her love of theater and community, and to support young people who need financial help to pursue the arts. You can donate here: https://www.nhsnpa.org/memorial-scholarships.html or they can also be mailed to the Nordhoff Parent Association, 1401 Maricopa Hwy., Ojai, CA 93023, with checks payable to “Nordhoff Parent Association” and the “Carol Ann Garramone Memorial Theater Arts Scholarship” in the memo line. Donations are to a non-profit 501 (c)3 and are tax-deductible.